Suicide Prevention Month: The Three A’s That Can Make a Difference
Every September, Suicide Prevention Month brings up a lot for me.
Workbench for the Mind exists because of my beautiful son, Muzz. In the aftermath of losing him, I found positive psychology and wellbeing, and I’ve spent the years since turning what I learned into something practical that other people can actually use, right here, right now.
And every Suicide Prevention Month, I keep coming back to the same thought.
The moments that matter most usually aren’t dramatic.
Sometimes, they’re incredibly ordinary.
It might be noticing that a colleague has gone quiet.
It might be someone feeling safe enough to say, “I’m actually not okay.”
Or it might simply be someone knowing what to do next instead of freezing.
These moments matter because creating a mentally healthy workplace isn’t just about what we do when someone reaches crisis point. It’s about the culture we create before that point.
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The Three A’s
That’s where the Three A’s: Awareness, Availability and Acceptance come in.
These aren’t about using clinical language or trying to become a mental health professional.
They’re practical tools for real workplaces and real people.
Awareness
Awareness starts with noticing.
Sometimes a change in someone’s behaviour can be easy to overlook. Perhaps a colleague who is normally engaged becomes withdrawn, someone stops contributing, or they simply don’t seem like themselves.
Awareness means being willing to notice those changes rather than assuming everything is fine.
It’s about paying attention to the people around us and recognising that someone may be struggling even when they haven’t said so.
Availability
Being available means creating opportunities for people to talk.
It can be as simple as letting someone know that you’re there and that you’re willing to listen.
When people feel safe enough to say, “I’m actually not okay,” we have created an opportunity for connection rather than leaving someone to navigate a difficult moment on their own.
Being available doesn’t mean having all the answers.
Sometimes, it simply means being present.
Acceptance
Acceptance means creating an environment where people don’t feel they have to hide what they’re experiencing.
Mental health is part of being human.
When we create cultures where people can acknowledge that they’re struggling without fear of judgement, we make it easier for conversations to happen earlier.
And those conversations can matter.
Building a Mentally Fit Culture Before Crisis Point
For me, this is at the heart of Workbench for the Mind.
I don’t want mental fitness to only become a conversation when something goes wrong.
I want us to think about it before crisis point.
What can we do to create workplaces where people feel seen, heard and supported?
What can we do to make conversations about wellbeing feel normal?
And how can we give people practical tools they can use in their everyday lives?
These are the conversations I want us to keep having, not just during Suicide Prevention Month, but throughout the year.
If this month has you thinking about your team, your workplace culture or your own mental fitness, I’d love that thought to go somewhere.
Start a conversation. Notice someone. Be available. Create space for acceptance.
Small moments of connection can matter more than we realise.
Workbench for the Mind is designed to help build mentally fit cultures before crisis point and is accredited by Suicide Prevention Australia and QIP certified.
If you’d like to learn more about Workbench for the Mind or explore how it could support your workplace, I’d love to chat.
Lifeline is available 24/7 on 13 11 14 for anyone in Australia who needs support.